What does friendship mean? ist come from trust? or just come from benefit?
BenefitÂ or Needs
For me, i would vote for both.Â I like sincere friendship, but without benefit, also wont stay long. Benefit that i mention here can be monetory or needs. Such as a husband and wife, other then turst and sincere,honest to each other,Â the benefit stand between is “needs”, both needs each other.
We make friend, because we know mayÂ be future we needs their help. Like my self, i have few best friend, the needs stand behindÂ me and them is socialize, they give me news, and i share idea, vice versa. Always “GIVE AND TAKE”
Trust of Benefit
Today, i feel so sad for an incident,Â a friend of mine agree to share hosting withÂ together suddently turn off and ask me refund, reason is no privacy…
Our agreement is like that:
Hosting 2 year worth RM299, i have a voucher of RM199 and need to pay RM100 as balance, he sugest we share the RM100 (each person RM50), i agree also, since friendship for sometime, he help me inÂ alot inÂ bloggingÂ and i didn calculative with him.
Hosting package can addon 5 domain, i own 3 and he own 2. We both agree with that, since theÂ RM199 voucher is from mine.Â
Does Trust apear between us?
When i sign up the hosting, imediate i foward him the admin login and password, we bothÂ started FTPÂ toÂ hosting.Â I am using Admin FTP account because my file are located just after WWW folder, that meanÂ i can access all the file and folder.Â Today he complaint to me that my ftp can access to his file and he feel no privacy on his file. Now ask me to calculate the balance of 22 month and refund (we sign up the hosting already 2month). So what can i do? i have already give out all the login and pass on the admin FTP and cpanelÂ to him as well at the 1st place. I trust him, and we agree share the hosting
He already broke our initial agreement, should i still keep it?
Well, in this case, the attribute stand between us is TRUST and BENEFIT, i am understand his point of view,Â no trust exist, and also benefit issue. I won’t because of this few buck of cash and turn my face off from him.Â No problem for the refund. May be 2 year ago i will do like that, just ignore him and dont want refund.
What for so calculative? Internet is a gold mine. Althought i still not earn any single cent from it, but i believe still have planty of opurtunity out there.